7 THINGS TO DO WHEN HOPES ARE LOST

Losing hope is a devastating feeling. That is our last defense in front of any adversity. When we lose all hope, we surrender ourselves. Everything seems lost. You feel huge disappointment with yourself and everything. You don't see an exit in your sight. But no matter how hard a situation can be, there is always an exit. There is always a solution to every problem.

Hope is to cherish a desire with anticipation, a feeling of expectation and desire for a particular thing to happen. But when it seems there is nothing more to cherish in expectation, when you feels as if there is nothing more to expect, it usually feels as if everything is against you. I have heard of many people committing suicide, and some related stuff because of this. There is no problem on earth without a solution, but the solution is not committing suicide, the solution is not hurting other people, neither is letting in any form of negative thinking, the solution. Below are things to consider when you find yourself in a situation like this.

ACCEPT REALITY AS IT IS, AND TRY TO DO SOMETHING

Most people are paralyzed after some adversity, some often take it as if it's not real, and allowed it to eat them up, thereby loosing the chances to fix it on time. It is advisable to accept that it happened, so that you can actually look for a possible ways to fix it, I know it maybe a devastating moment for most people but seeing it as if it's not real, doesn't help most of the time. First thing first, accept reality as it is, and do your best to improve your situation.

ASK FOR HELP AND SUPPORT

We have some limitations. If you have smarter or more experienced people around you, don't be afraid or proud to ask for help and support. Don’t allow your pride to prevent you from asking for help and support. Speak up, tell your parents or councelor or friend about the issue. 

The Holy Book says that "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity." 

Don't allow that situation to consume you, talk to someone about it.

DON’T WAIT FOR OTHERS TO SAVE YOU, SAVE YOURSELF

Oh what if no one is available to help? What if no one wants to hear me out?, it happens sometimes when everyone is busy with their own issues and when no one gives you heed, you may think it's another add-on to your problem counts, but it's not.

Most people have problems, and they can barely save themselves. Don’t wait for others to save you, save yourself. Be proactive. 

FAILING IS AN ACCIDENT, BUT NOT DOING ANYTHING IS YOUR CHOICE

Yes, you fail, so what. You don’t want to spend all your life thinking about your traumas. Your life is more than a collection of traumatic experiences. Failing is an accident, but not doing anything to change that situation is only your choice.

DO THINGS THAT WILL GAIN YOUR HOPE

Courage is an important quality. We can’t even start things without courage. If you have fears, doubts, insecurities, etc. the best way to gain hope will be to face these.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Self-belief is an important part of your life. When people lose self-belief, they instantly lose hope. Never lose trust in yourself, because these are the foundation of your personality. And that's why most people end their life. You may loose all hopes, but never loose faith in yourself, because that's the worst part of it. No matter any situation you may face in life, always have faith that you are going to overcome that situation and you are going to come out better than before. 

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