4 ATTITUDES THAT WILL MAKE OTHERS SEE YOU AS THE BEST

Being the best type of person have been what young adults yearns for. It's a thought that we can't run away from as young people, even most adults yearn for it too, we all want to be viewed by others as the best but we have no idea how. Or probably we know how but applying it seems impossible. I have been in a situation like that when everything seems to be abnormal around me and I always had a thought to make a difference, even though the world isn't perfect, I longed to be viewed by others as the perfect being, so I began my research. It is no new thing for one to yearn to be the best, but the goal is for you to be viewed as the best. There's a reason why I told you that your main goal here is for others to view you as the best, not you being the best. The reason is that when you are viewed by others as the best, you will work to keep your integrity alive and by keeping your integrity alive you will be the best which you yearned for and will achieve two things together which is being the best and other people's trust and respect. And if by any chance you fail to keep your integrity alive, you will still be viewed as the best because you have their trust and respect, but make sure you amend your err on time. Yet if you just want to be the best whether others view you as the best or not, you can as well but just like I have said before, nothing is perfect on earth even some things that you look up to as perfect aren't perfect, they just appear perfect. The question to be answered now is what then can I put in place so that others will view me as the best. And that is the sole topic of this post, so stay with me let's take them one after another.

BE GENTLE

Firstly strive to be gentle, it is no new word to be gentle but the question is what makes you gentle. Well, looking at dictionary's definition of gentle, it states that gentle is courteous, polite, and respectful. A gentleman says please and thank you, waits his turn in line, and treats others as they wish to be treated. He's a man with good manners even at dining and treating others, he is tender, amiable and considerate. These above characters qualifies you as a gentle person. The great thing i admire most about being gentle is that everyone will love you, although there is this saying "Haters will still hate" but I want you to know that if you possess nothing that someone will hate then anyone hating you is not a hater but an envious fool. Gentleness matters so much in this topic because if I start explaining all the meanings of gentle, you will find out that it is the master key to being the best. But I will make out time to detail on gentleness in later posts, just stay connected.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO SPEAK YOUR OWN MIND

The next thing after gentleness is boldness or courage. The dictionary defines it as "the quality of being confident, not afraid or easily intimidated, but without being incautious or inconsiderate." Some people do misunderstood the relationship between gentleness and courage, some people thinks them to be opposite of each other. But NO, they are not opposite and in this situation can not be opposite of each other. One elderly man advised me one time ago and he said "A gentleman that is not courageous is a weakling", at first It felt awkward to me but when I think it over, I found out what he's pointing at. A gentleman that can not stand his ground and easily got afraid is a weak man, so the two words work together. To be the best, be courage enough to speak out and stand your ground during difficult times. 

You can speak out in different ways, either with your words, with your actions or with your silence. But the work here is for you to figure out which way will be suitable to speak out on various occasions. For instance, if you are in a dialogue meeting with your colleagues and some issues that requires contribution of opinions were presented and everyone is looking up to your opinion. In a case like this, what way will you use to speak out? Is it by your words or by your actions or by your silence? And one great thing I do love is that everyone will love to hear what a man viewed to be gentle is going to say, and when he speaks, it will be viewed as a special speech.

BE DETERMINED AND ALWAYS WORK TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS

There's this saying "Determination leads to success". Determination matters a lot in life because most of the determined hardworkers I know achieved success at the end. And that's why you have to work with determination to achieve your aims, but working with determination is not the reason you are reading this post although I will make out a post for it later, you are reading this because you want to be viewed as the best by people around, so how does it relate together. People will mostly view you as the best when you become successful in one thing or the other and for you to become successful in something, you have to work with determination towards it. And when you finally succeed, you will be a role model to those around you, people will like to emulate you, people will view you as the best among your mates, you will be highly recognize in the society. And you have achieve your goal to be the best, to make a difference in your society or among your mates.

ALWAYS APPEAR AS THE BEST

It all round up here, your appearance speaks much about you. You may be gentle but if you don't appear as a gentle man, you are not gentle. You may be courageous but if you don't appear courageous, you are not courageous. You may be successful but if you don't appear successful, you might not be regarded as a successful person. So appearance rounds up everything explained in this post because your appearance is like a sample of who you are to the society. What you wear, the scent of your body and mouth and how you approach others sends some message to people around you. I have a reason to tell you that your appearance matters so much because people can never view someone with body or mouth odour or someone that dress like a mad person as a gentle person or a role model. Below this post I will give you my suggestion of dresses, you can click on the images to purchase it online on AliExpress.

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The best type of human is what I always want to be and if you read this post till here I'm for sure that you will be the best if you put the things you have learnt here in practice. It's no easy journey to be viewed as the best but you will find it a lot easier if you visualize yourself in a position of being the best and umeditate on what to do to achieve your aims and put it to work. I trust you can do it, be gentle, don't be afraid to speak your mind, be a determined hard worker, and always appear as the best. Do well to stay connected to my blog as well.