UNDERSTANDING YOUR INNER SELF

 Understanding your inner self is the most important thing you need to consider as you are stepping to becoming a young adult or perhaps an adult. Understanding what you want and the best possible way to get them. Listening to your inner voice and deciding on what decision that best suits you. Executing your decision by applying your set up strategies to get to your determined destination. Understanding not your inner self can cause you inner afflict because your inner self helps you make good decisions. But for your inner being to help you make good and unregretful decisions, you have to understand your intuitions, know how best to communicate with your inner self and trusting your inner self is essential

UNDERSTANDING YOUR INTUITIONS

This is no new thing, you have to understand who you are, what you are able to do, what you enjoy doing and what you can't do. Some people enjoy doing things that are unexpected of them, thereby creating surprise to people around. While some people do things because people expect them to do it. Some people as well don't like praises, they disregard receiving credits for what they do. While some do enjoy getting credits for everything they do. So you have understand your personal do's and don't s. I will emphasis on this in detail later, stay updated.

COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR INNER SELF

Communication plays a vital role in this topic because without effective communication, you might end up not hearing anything from your inner self and here is where people usually get it wrong when contacting their inner being. One of my friends told me that I should forget about this inner self thing that he have done it before and hear no voice telling him which decision to make. I laughed and said to him "my dear, you are not going to hear any voice telling you which decision to make". And I have a reason to tell you that you are not going to hear voice rather than your own voice. When I said "your inner self", there's no difference when I also said "yourself" but the "inner" in it. Your inner self is also yourself but the difference is that it knows what you want/need by analyzing you, what you are capable of doing, what you enjoy doing and what you can't do. But communication in case here is the time you will give yourself to analyze you and bring out the best decision from you. The best way to do that is by quietness and effective thinking capability, so if I may choose for you I will choose night hour. When everywhere is calm and quiet. But that's not all, to communicate with your inner being you have to surrender your stress, difficulty and disconnect yourself from your environment so to be able to make important decision. I will detail on this topic, so check out my post "Communication with your inner self"

TRUSTING YOUR INNER SELF

Why I said that "trusting your inner self is essential" is because when you have arrived on a decision and still have a double mindset on the decision, I'm afraid you might end up following a wrong route. You have to trust your inner self, what I mean is that when you arrive at a decision, don't step back by following other people opinions. Although you have to gather people's opinions first before contacting your inner self to avoid mistakes.

In conclusion, first step for effective inner self understanding is understanding your intuitions; know who you are, what you are capable of doing, what you enjoy doing and what you can't do. Secondly effective communication with your inner being, this calls for a quiet place and time, disconnecting yourself from the environment, focusing on yourself, and find out the best decision out of you. Lastly and most importantly trusting your inner self.