SETTING A GOOD STANDARD FOR YOURSELF

 

The attitudes of your life requires or even demand influence from someone either your parents or your friends, too many people misunderstood the fact that they are created by the thought and influence of God.

There are some decisions and set of standard you have to set for yourself that others will see and love, trying their best to emulate, I will explain in details how people do love some attitudes you possess and are trying to emulate it unknowingly to you, but the funniest and craziest thing is that some people are envious of your attitudes when they try to emulate you but didn't succeed.

There are three HOW'S when it comes to setting a good reputable standard for yourself that people will like to emulate, you might be asking yourself any of the following questions:

1. HOW can I know I possess an attitude worthy of emulation?

2. HOW can my friends try to emulate my attitude unknowingly to me?

3. HOW can I apply my attitude effectively on the lives of my friends?

The above listed HOW'S are the questions people ask when it comes to setting a good standard worthy of emulation, let's look into these questions one after the other.

How can I know I possess an attitude worthy of emulation

People do ask this question, whenever I try to correct them on something wrong they did.

I told one of my friends "Stop chewing your tongue when in public, it's a bad attitude", surprisingly to me, he replied "did I even have a good attitude at all?".

This is the point I'm trying to pick out, some people don't know they have an attitude worthy of emulation until you tell them and prove it to them, setting a good standard has a lot to do with discovering your purpose in life, in my next article I will talk about "Fulfilling Your Purpose In Life".

How can my friends try to emulate my attitude unknowingly to me

One of my colleagues in secondary school days usually stares at me when the teacher is giving us lessons, he wants to know whether I'm paying attention or not, he's trying all he could to pay attention as I do but his friends are noise makers, he told his friends that anytime there is lessons going on in the class that they should stop disturbing him, since then during lessons he stay next close to me.

In friendship, there is two things involved, It's either your friends influence you or you influence your friends, that's why you need to make friends that have set a good standard for themselves, it will help you to maintain your good standard. Influence is very strong when it comes to the matter of friendship because your friends are people you talk with almost all the time.

How do I apply my attitude positively on the lives of my friends?.

Application of your attitude is the most important aspect of your life, it's just like helping others with something they don't have. Just like one of my colleagues I told you about, I applied my attitude of paying attention on him. We apply our attitudes on our friends in several ways, the way we talk to them matters and that's why you need to set a good reputable standard in the words you say and the actions you take.

Set a good reputable standard worthy of emulation and you will enjoy having friends because they will have something to gain from you as a friend.

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